Building a good house takes the right tools — as does building a good life.
Wealth is a tool for stability, low stress, and fun. Fashion is a tool for individuality or acceptance. Status is a tool for respect. Working out is a tool for a healthy body. Working hard is a tool for a fulfilling and rewarding job. A healthy lifestyle is a tool for a clear mind and strong relationships.
These tools are not the goal, they are the means. When we focus to much on tool itself, we loose site of what we are building.
Any of the tools listed above can become the focus life. None are worth putting your identity in.
When used to build a good life, these tools can help you start new friendships, feel less anxious, and remain healthy.
When used as the focus of life they will all do the exact opposite.
The house is goal.
You can’t live in a hammer.
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